Happiness and passion

Thanks to all who find some time to post their valuable comments on "Nothing succeeds like success" which was posted on day one of this blog. They also wish success of my book "PATA NAHIN- the Enigma of Success".

Anyway, coming to Happiness and passion, in connection to the query that whether I will still be happy or not if ultimately I do not receive any response from any body towards my blog and my book "PATA NAHIN- the Enigma of Success" is not successful even is not published? My answer is Yes. As I have mentioned that whatever may be the situation, either desired or not, I am always happy with my present situation though I am extremely passionate about better tomorrow. So, any future date will be present situation on that very date and I will be happy for that present situation. You may be thinking I am acting like a Hippocrates or I must be god or I am pretending to be great. On this count I would like to mention that I belong to that category of population who know that they know nothing. Actually, I always try to view some common aspects of life from a very simple perspective. I would like to share one of such things with you.

One of the very common cause of our unhappiness is when anyone lies. We attribute the word unfaithfulness for such liers as we think their lies may put us in aukoward situations or can cause irrepireable losses to us. But, I would like to put this in a different way.
Why any one lies?
a) out of fear that is fear of power (possibility of being punished in the event of telling the undesired truth) or fear of loosing love (we may lost our beloved one in the event of telling hard reality) or fear of loosing respect.
b) To hide the difference between reality and desirability that is if anyone desires his situations(may be one's family status/job profile/etc) to be such that it is vastly diffent from his actual situations.
c) To make any situation or fact more attractive, reliable, etc. to others.

So, out of above mention three reasons, for a) and C) the lier is concerned about others position that is to whom he is complled to lie must be powerful than him or must be his beloved one or one who respects him or to make others happy with the lie. In case of b) one lies for his own selfish cause. But, here also, if we go to the root cause of his telling lie we can realize that how poor cahp he is and we should mercy him.

Pleas try to find out some counter argumants in this regard and post your arguments before I come to any conclusion.

How to be happy with the present and passionate for better future?

Best example may be my blog. Yesterday I invited suggestions from you all in this regard. After creating this blog, I took all possible steps to make my blog popular before publication of my book. Further, being successful in service and social life, I was assured by all my well wishers that they will extend all possible support to make my blog very popular before release of my book. Furthermore, some of my friends assured me that my blog will be flooded with comments. But, ironically, not a single postings as off now. So, I must be unhappy with the present and must abuse my friends for making bull sheet commitments. No, I am absolutely happy with present situation as I know that the 'proper timing' as mentioned by Bollywood play back singer, Abhijeet, in his interview with me (the same interview has been produced in the book), has not yet come. Further, despite being very sincere and serious of their commitments, my friends and well wishers have not been able to post even their own comments may be because of "Proper Timing". So, in spite being frustrated and unhappy, I am very happy with the present situation and more passionately waiting for the 'proper Timing'. I know, you may ask that, despite my all attempts, if the so called "Proper Timing" does not at all come, will I still be happy? I will explain this tomorrow till then more passionately waiting for posts this time.

What do we want in life?

May be any or all of the followings-Name, Fame, Power, Position, Money, Wealth or as a whole success, good family and social life, doing something for the betterment of society, doing something remarkable and so on and so forth....

Actually, from birth to death, we try hard to make a simple change in one equation-

When we were born, we cried and the whole world rejoiced.

When we will die, we rejoice and the whole world cries.

But, ironically, in more then 98% cases-

When we die, once again only we cry and the whole world rejoice. So, basically there has been no change in equation.

So, question comes, how we can change the equation?

It is possible only by following a simple philosophy- be absolutely happy for the present situation and be absolutely passionate for better future.

But, ironically, despite all sorts of educations, more than 98% population are absolutely unhappy with the present situation and do not have passion for better future.

It can be explained by the following example-

Generally we find that any person having very low profile job did not disclose his actual designation to his relatives/ friends and always try to make some ambiguity in this regard. Why does he do this? Actually he is not happy with his low ranked job. On the contrary, he is not at all passionate for better job, which, he thinks, may suit his social position. Because, he thinks he will get the better job by any means or it is the responsibility of others to get him a better job. If he does not get the better job as per his choice, he blames others dishonesty, malpractice, etc. So, at the end of his life there will be no change in the equation.

Then how it is possible to follow the theory- be happy with present and be passionate for future?

Please post your suggestions and check it with my realizations.

Nothing succeds like Success

How Does success come?

Obviously a Billion dollar question, for, every successful persona grata is required to be diligent, disciplined & intelligent decision maker, but that does not necessarily mean a person having the above mentioned qualities will be successful.

Then what?

The Clue might be unheard of. But is it really impossible to surmise? On this count, we must ask ourselves a very simplistic question-What % of our contemplation, realization & longings, we can share even with our nearest & dearest ones. Let alone the other populace! Most of the time what trivial percentage we share with them that too is not before censoring those in accordance with & without contravening the social norms.

Likewise, all successful persons either enumerate their secret of success in a logical way or try to depict themselves as an insignia of dedication, discipline, diligence & intelligent decision makers. Their societies also attribute those qualities to them & due to that, their actual feelings & realization which they want to share with others remain fettered in the abyss of mysticism.

ABSURD! RIDICULOUS!! ILLOGICAL !!! NONSENSICAL!!!!

Are we sure or are we reiterating the words which are logically & socially acceptable or try to suppress the enigma with the so called logic.

Welcome to the enigmatic world of SUCCESS.