How to make "All is Well"

At the outset I convey my thanks form the bottom of my heart to Gaurav, KA Iyer, Kirubakaran, Saket Ranjen, Suren, Deepa Bose, Virdi, Sujitda, Kash and Abhishekh Mukherjee for joining my blog as followers.

Before I publish the Scientific Love Triangle theory of happiness in all situation by Prof. Manchanda, I need to address Abhishekh who has given me a vary valuable suggestion on 'All is Well'. He said, "there is a very thin line between All is Well and All is Hell'. As per him, the thin line is nothing but ego. He further said,"If anyone can get rid of Ego then only he can say all is well in any undesirable situation also,but if any one has Ego problem then all will be hell".

But, does Ego the only factor making All is well or All is hell? Before coming to any conclusion, I would request Abhishekh to examine the following aspects also. Yes, it is a fact that Ego plays a very important role in making situation either 'All is Well' or 'All is hell' as we see in case of shadow boxing between Chetan Bhagat and Amir Khan, Vidhu Vinod Chopra & Rajkumar Hirani or fighting between Ambani brothers. Suppose few boys plan to play cricket in the afternoon and suddenly there is rain in the afternoon. The boys will feel the situation like a hell, but does Ego of the boys' play any role in making the situation hell? obviously not. Further, when we loss any of our dearest one, we feel whole world like a hell and try to ransack everything. Does Ego play an important role in making the situation hell? No. Because, in that case we become unhappy due to breaking apart of our dream. At the time of planning for plying cricket in the afternoon the boys dream t of about the pleasure of playing the cricket and when due to rain their dream falls apart, they become unhappy, as the in case of loosing dearest one.

So, after searching all round for the causes which can make anyone unhappy in case of any untoward situation, I find that whatever may the reasons we need to be happy in all situation and for that we need to practice for developing the feeling "All is Well". "But, how we can develop the feeling or how we can practice?", Ravi(my classmate as well as roommate at IIPM) asked me. He said, "If we are able to be happy in any situation we will become God. Is not it, Dada?" I replied,"No, you don't require to become God for this. Yes, you need to be a non-Hypocrite that is what you belief you say and than you try to change the belief for yourself first and then tell the whole world regarding the belief. But, usually we see the opposite that is we don't belief in any particular principle or not able to follow particular principle and still give lectures to others to follow or practice the principle, as we see in case of Chetan Bhagat, Amir Khan, Vidhu Vinod Choper and Rajkumar Hirani over 3 Idiots issue. All of them believe in those pretty things which are being aspired by the very funny character Chatur and none of them are in a position to follow the principles of Rancho, as shown in the film 3 idiots. Still, though the movie they tried convey the principles to the common people. So, my request to all is to be non-Hypocrite first and then practice the Love Triangle Theory of Prof. Manchanda to develop the belief of being happy in all situation so that one day we can truly say All is Well.

Love Triangle Theory of Prof. Manchanda.
As per Prof. Manchanda there is a beautiful triangle of Belief, Subconscious mind and conscious mind. He explains these three things as Engine of a train, Wrecks of a train and passengers of a train. He further explains that in addition to Engine of a train, we can compare our Conscious mind as micro processor of a computer and in addition to wrecks of a train, we can consider our Subconscious mind as hard disc of a computer. And in addition to passengers of a train, we can compare our belief as printed copy or soft copy.

He explains these equations in the following ways-

Conscious Mind- It is only 10% of our mind but it drives the activities of entire mind, like and engine or the processor.

Sub-conscious Mind- It is the 90% of our mind and stores everything programmed by conscious mind just like Hard Disc of a computer or wrecks of train.

Belief- It is the outcome of joint functioning of conscious and subconscious mind like hard disc and processor of a computer to produce any hard copy or soft copy or like an engine and wrecks of a train to help to reach the passenger to their destinations.

Fine. But, what is the relation between happiness with these things or how we can practice to be happy in all situation with the help of love triangle?

On this count Prof. Manchada explains how a particular belief is developed.He says from the birth of death of an individual, whatever have been the realizations, contemplations, observations and longings of the conscious mind are being stored in the subconscious mind and when on any particular issue both subconscious and conscious mind synchronize absolutely a particular belief is developed and anything that hurts or try to change our belief we become unhappy. Like in the case of planning cricket by the boys who at the time of planning by the conscious mind dream about the joyful moments and pleasures and the same are being stored in the subconscious mind. They don't plan for other things for that time as they don't belief that anything could stop them playing. Now, when, due to rain, their such dream is not fulfilled, their conscious mind instead of driving the subconscious mind, is being guided by subconscious mind and condition of their belief became like a passenger where there is not proper co-ordination between engine and wrecks. And, like such passenger, they become unhappy.

His prescription towards overcoming such unhappy situation is dreaming. He says, what for we dream, especially sweet dream? For better or even good things. Whenever we dream we dream only for good one and if anything bad came to our mind, we try to forget it as nightmare. So we become so dependable about the good results/ outcome or on the the existence of any particular thing that we can't believe or even try to believe the about the undesired results/ outcome or non-existence of a particular thing. He says we must dream that ten years from now I will be as successful like Shah Rukh Khan, having all sorts of pleasure, fun, name, fame so on and so forth. But, we must also dream about the non happening such thing or even happening of any worse thing with our conscious mind and automatically our subconscious mind will store it. And, in real time whatever is happened there will be perfect coordination between Engine and wrecks and we will be able to say All is Well.
I would like to conclude with attachment of one video clip from "love aj kal". Her you can see that deepka is dreaming that one day Saif Ali Khan will realize her importance and will come back to here and they will happily live there after. Now, if we only dream about that only in the event of non realizing her importance by Saif Ali Khan, her life would have been a miserable one. But, I don't think so, as Dipika used the word "agar usko samaj Aye to" (if he at all feel), means she is ready to face the other part also. So, she may not be delighted but at the same time will not be so frustrated that she will think how she will live alone. Though for the sake of happy ending of the film, Saif Ali Khan came, but in real life that chances are very low. So dream about all possible consequences/ results/ happening, to make yourself confident enough, obviously not like a hypocrite, to say All is Well.